You deserve a better deal, and better neighbors.
Your situation mirrors the corporate environments to the extent that in many corporate cultures, open conflict is frowned upon, so people resort to passive aggressive means to attack and annoy.
Passive aggression really climbs all over me. I'd rather just jack you now and have it out, and clear the air. No go in corplife.
Face it, as you already clearly have- you are an odd bird, an eagle in a nest of ducks. It is what it is.